Sit with a partner. Maintain eye contact. Don't touch.

Tell her or him, "I feel separateness from you when I say to myself ... (specify all of the rational and irrational, serious and trivial, crazy and stupid and clear and astute things you say to yourself that make you feel separate from her or him.) Exhaust your list.

Your partner sits calmly and says, "Thank you" after each separation you enumerate.

Then have your partner tell you, "I feel separateness from you when I
say to myself...." Encourage your partner to exhaust her or his separatenesses: calmly say "Thank you" for each.

Then join hands. Tell your partner, "I feel oneness with you when I tell myself ... (complete with all the things you tell yourself which make you feel close to your partner..) Reverse roles. Discuss your experience with this exercise.

When you raise your consciousness to the dyadic level you still keep your bodymind awareness, your distinct personality and your inner voices, should you choose to temporarily identify with them.

When you and your significant other expand consciousness of yourselves to internalize each others' wisdom and concerns, you are on the dyadic level of consciousness. The energy, richness, complexity and awareness the two of you share exceeds the sum of both your individual bodymind energies and aware nesses. Your couple synergy is enhanced when you use your relationship so each of you grows and has more to give to the relationship as well.

Ken Keyes provides an excellent model for such synergistic dyadic consciousness. [Keyes, K., Handbook to Higher Consciousness, 5th Edition,: Living Love, 1979 and A Conscious Person's Guide to Relationships, Kentucky: Living Love, 1979.]
Keyes says to welcome upsets in your relationship. You can use upsets to raise your consciousness. He suggests you fully share your deepest feelings and process what you say to yourself which make you feel separate from and opposed to one another. You can then experience your oneness.

Relate compassionately, Keyes says, to your lover's problems as signals for her or him to grow without also getting yourself caught up emotionally. Process your own emotional upsets, feel centered and loving and then act freely. Use your relationship to stimulate internal dialogue at the personality levels of each of you, so you can both raise your individual and mutual consciousness. When you're upset, disturbed, unhappy or dissatisfied with your mate, explore your own addictions, that is, how you tell yourself your other must be and your relationship must be for you to be happy. Such addictions trigger your upset. You stop suffering and instead grow when you stop being addicted.

Change your addictions to preferences. Preferences are desires which, if not fulfilled, do not make you suffer.

* What, in Keyes' framework, are addictions and preferences?

* What does he mean when he says to upgrade your addictions to preferences?

Think of an addiction of yours that involves someone with whom you are in a relationship. Speculate on the form your addiction would take if it were raised to a preference.

* Imagine that you've up leveled your addiction to a preference. Imagine how your life would be affected. Tell me what you imagine.

* Recall a time when your intimate's annoying habit or attitude gave you an opportunity to discard an addiction and feel better as a result. Write you results.

Stop blaming each other for not meeting each other's expectations. Refrain from making addiction-based demands. Turn off addictions; turn on love. Let your intimate express anger, jealousy and other separating emotions aimed at you, while you love her or him more no matter what she or he does. Let her or his addictions be okay with you.

Realize that in disputes, you win some and lose some; that is okay.

Make your growth and self-expression help your love's growth as she or he defines it.
Before you enter a deep relationship with another, Keyes invites you to know and accept your own inner voices, personality and bodymind. Enter your relationship so you can cooperate with each other in "the great adventure of life."

Keyes recommends you avoid using intense love as a basis for involvement, since, at more inclusive levels of consciousness, you're at living oneness and love with all humanity. You are already deeply in love with everyone. Therefore, he says, choose carefully who you share your time and life games with. Choose someone who contributes to your well-being and vice versa.

"You contribute to your mutual well-being when you enjoy the 'enoughness' that you do have in your life, and thus open your heart to happiness by not creating emotion-backed demands for what you don't have. Learn to emotion- ally accept what is here and now in your life. You will find you always have 'enough' in your life."

Take responsibility, Keyes says, for creating your own happiness in your relationship. You use your relationship to raise your own consciousness only when you work on your own bodymind, personality and subself integration. Keyes suggests such integration allows you to be "in touch with the beautiful, capable and loving" aspects of your own subdyadic consciousness as well as higher consciousness. "I love you," means "You're mirroring me and letting me see the beautiful, capable parts of me."

Make your relationship delightful by being involved and sharing with your intimate, not by being addicted to your intimate for your happiness. To increase your involvement, you must decrease your addictions. Sharing means not hiding anything, so you can build a trusting base.

"Ask for what you want, but don't be addicted to getting it."

Keep noticing the beauty and preciousness of the bodymind and higher
being your intimate is no matter what subpersonality she or he is affecting.

Open to the form the relationship takes, which, for couples, may be nonmonogamous.

You function at the dyadic level of consciousness when you "discover
the 'us' place in terms of surrender, compassionate power and mutual give and take."

Dr. Lessin's holistic tantra book, All-Chakra Tantra, co-written with wife Janet Kira Lessin, is available at http://www.schooloftantra.net/Store/Books/AllChakraTantra.htm

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Awake, aware, we become a clear vessel of the Divine, a pure channel of love and light. On this sacred journey to consciousness, we remove chakra blocks through spiritual psycho-emotional healing, personal growth work and spiritual practice.

The Sacred Matrix honors the spiritual essence of all faiths, incorporates the best of all beliefs. Together we co-create a conscious path, a direct line to Source. Reconnected we heal all wounds, become fully alive, happy, healthy, in unconditional love with all of us, divine bliss, heaven on earth.

Heaven brought to Earth dissolves the matrix of hierarchy, eliminates the illusion of separation, overcomes pain, war, death, disease and destruction. Negativity is replaced by a sacred matrix, a matrix of love where we encourage one another to do our best, heal, play, love and experience fulfillment, joy, bliss, sensuality, sexuality and right livelihood.

The Sacred Matrix, a new paradigm of conscious, unconditional love, a place outside of time and space where we feel reconnected to each other, the divine, Source. Here we feel our oneness, honor the divinity in all beings, see the parts that ring true in belief systems and develop the wisdom to move past those things that no longer support all consciousness. We free ourselves from emotional, spiritual, psychological pollution, a gridlock within our bodies that manifests as chakra blocks that prevents kundalini awakening. Within the world the gridlock appears as anger, hatred, prejudice, intolerance, crime, violence, racism, separation and war.

We break through these barriers, personal and global, to heal individually and collectively. We create paradise, a planet where love’s the primary operating system and peace that respects all life, all consciousness, prevails.

Through the Sacred Matrix, we remember who we truly are–light beings originating from Source. We operate from that oneness. We practice ahimsa (do no harm), candor (tell the truth), integrity, authenticity, kindness, pure intentions, honesty, personal responsibility, path of peace, consciousness, transparency and unconditional love.

Choose spiritual evolution. Evolve to a higher level of being, an awareness of love that’s free from war, fear, lack, prejudice, pain and hierarchy. Shift from the paradigm of the Illuminati Matrix, a design full of confusion, conflict, pain, separation and suffering to the Sacred Matrix. Embrace peace, clarity, love, bliss and Oneness, the realization that we all originate from Source, the Divine Flame that sparked us all into existence.

Purpose: We recognize the contrast between the current illusion, a Zeitgeist (world view) reality of confusion, conflict, war, disease, pain and suffering and the internal longing for a world free of strife, full of harmony and peace that respects all consciousness and allows each and every one of us to live with dignity, beauty, grace and peace. All our basic needs for survival and happiness met, as a birthright, free from struggle. Until now no single organization has offered solutions to remedy these problems. The Sacred Matrix offers a paradigm of peace where every being embodies her or his own personal journey home to oneness where they become whole, complete, reconnected to Source.

Contrast: Together we witness the contrast of separation: religious secularism, political polarization, sexism, conflicts in healthcare choices, competitive economics, environmental exploitation, and the deterioration and disintegration of our planet—Mother Earth. We recognize that if we don’t change our way of life and the way we view ourselves, each other, and our planet, we will ultimately face a future of planetary annihilation, destruction and desolation. We are in a collision course with our destiny and we still have time to make the necessary changes to save ourselves, this world and all the beauty of plants, animals, flora and fauna that we’ve been blessed to have as our home.

Solution: The Sacred Matrix offers a paradigm of peace where every human being can enter, gain and understand their own personal integrity and what it means to live from it.  All beings learn how to connect with others to form cooperatives of integrity through creating conscious, kind and loving intentional communities, neighborhoods, associations, cities, countries and worlds where sharing and love is the norm. By beginning in our own neighborhoods with friends and family, we prepare to be good neighbors and galactic citizens worthy of inclusion to higher technologies and solutions to improve our lives and save our world.

Overview: The Sacred Matrix is based on the human chakra system, a virtual rainbow vortex of light that channels through individuals, through one another and collectively across the planet. The incremental spectrums of the colors of light represent various spiritual paths and cultures we were born into. We acknowledge our ancestors, their love and good intentions and select elements that resonate with the core of our being to follow throughout our lives. These spiritual and religious paths tabs or indexes on the template of consciousness. Centrifugal force pulls us from beginning levels, the outer circle of reality into deeper awareness of greater possibilities in the inner circle. Ultimately we arrive in to the center of oneness, the Spheres of Existence, levels of pure light that radiate out to all and embrace us in divine love.

Conclusion: We recognize our path and placement on the chakra rainbow vortex of light and consciously choose to continue that emanation of Source or move to another ray of light (emanation). We realize all emanations ultimately converge into Source, the white ray of light, illumination and enlightenment. From this enlightened pinnacle of we KNOW absolute truth: WE ARE ALL ONE

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We are beings eternally evolving, learning, growing, through lifetimes, here on the Earth and other planets, realms, dimensions. Sometimes we’re light beings while other times we alter, lower or raise our vibrational frequencies to merge with bodies or energies in various levels of physical and spiritual manifestation. Eventually we evolve to the point where we’re able to create life from existing matter and energy. As we progress we learn how to terra form planets. There are those who actually learn how to manifest planets for terra forming by others who are learning to shape the planet’s terrain and introduce life forms, which they also create. We who are inhabiting this lowest dimension of physicality have a tendency to play victim and blame others for our situation, but actually we are creating this reality. Every thing, all is subjective. It’s not only the law of attraction in action, but we actually create even while we exist in this densest of dense forms. We are more conscious of our creative abilities when in the spiritual realm (dead). But we are just as capable of creating in this world. It’s just on a more unconscious level. That’s why it’s so important to manage our emotions, thoughts and deeds, for thoughts are deeds and it is by and through our lives and the execution of these deeds that we are judged by ourselves when we die.

We are God Source, eternal beings continually practicing on a soul level creating and manipulating energy and matter. We do the same thing here, on Earth, using our hands in combination with our minds and will. We become adept at manipulating and controlling those around us through posturing, posing, word-smithing, smiles, anger, coaxing, conditioning, training, sexuality and energy. Using all we continually shift and change things with our minds, adjusting them to our will, rearranging them to suit our needs, wants and desires. We do the same things on our soul level by pure will, for we are not incarnated in a mind (brain) and are more expanded, able to manifest by pure energy and desire.

Here on Earth we are assisted by our bodies through our brain (mind). We move mountains. We create massive civilizations which we frequently destroy with the flick of a button, bombs, armies, war, biochemical warfare, mind control, designer diseases, drugs and their side effects. Our food, water, soil and air are laced with chemicals designed to shorten our lives and release toxins, bacteria, diseases and germs in to our bloodstream and bodies. Order, chaos, order, chaos cycles endlessly through the years, throughout our lives providing scenarios for our evolution.

What can we do to combat parasitic vampires atop the pyramid with their all seeing eyes who consume everything through greed, money, power, sucking us dry till we’re all physically, emotionally, morally and spiritually dead?

Our only revenge is to become conscious, awake and aware within the dream. "Row, row, row your boat gently down the stream. Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily, life is but a dream." True. It is. And we are the dreamer who becomes the chooser by transforming the unconscious to lucid dreams to total awareness, a reality where we are the captain at the helm of the ship.

What we perceive we believe we conceive we achieve. If we no longer buy in to their (the Illuminati, creators of the perverted matrix) game, they won’t have enough players to play their play, operate their version of reality. They know this.

We are given free will by Source (God). We need venues for physical lives in sentient form for the evolution of our souls. Societies that are too repressive don’t allow us to co-create with Source and are no longer viable for Creation to sustain or substantiate their existence.

We are Source incarnated in souls (spirit) and flesh (bodies). We are the perfect hybrid, living in symbiotic harmony (for the most part). Souls who cannot adjust to their bodies do not resonate in harmony and subsequently create chaos and harm to themselves and others.

Earth is the playground for billions of souls (perhaps trillions since the dawn of time) who come here because it’s attractive, like a favorite tourist destination. Conditions are prime for souls to learn, grow, expand, evolve.

A world that’s too polluted becomes no longer viable for sentient life. Enough freedom must be given to permit souls to grow and evolve which souls do by being co-creators with Source. Devolution is death for all life, so the population decreases and souls go elsewhere to gain experiences for their personal evolution.

Earth is prime, a mix between "good" and "evil", so there’s enough catalyst and challenge for growth. However, the system is becoming too perverse, is in danger of total destruction, too limiting, too restrictive to continue. So either Earth’s human system experiences a perturbation to uplevel it’s perverted system to a higher playing field or it will self destruct sending the energy and beings the system held capture back in to the cosmos.

Back in the cosmos, energy and matter will coalesce and re-constellate to more viable forms and configurations that better serve God Source, Creation and all it’s beings, life and energy forces. God/Creation/Creativity rules so diversity continues to diversify. Otherwise, souls stop coming here. No more tourists. It’s too ugly.

I believe Earth is too valuable because of her level of diversity which was created because of her polarity paradigm plus her location in the densest part of physicality, to be permitted to perish. While souls may be able to go to other venues for experiences and evolution, Earth’s playing field is so unique, it's too prescious. We're being watched. I believe we are ripe for intervention from higher evolved beings, many of which are related to us or are part of our soul groups who experience extraterrestrial lives in between human lives. They are invested, attached and care about us for we are them and they are us.

We’re seeing more and more sightings. Every day witnesses come forth from all over the world ranging from above top secret black projects leaders to average Joe, Jose or Jin citizen in all walks of life. Putting all together, connecting the dots, we have the true history of the Earth and a potential for a future far brighter and expansive than what could actually be achieved through natural evolution and at a much faster rate. Intervention is actually perfection. It's time we wake up, accelerate and become a civilized civilization.

Literally, tomorrow, we could be invited to join the Federation of Planets. Yes, it’s perhaps a Star-Trekkian vision that to many seems unrealistic. Yet unless we reach outside the box to the Sacred Matrix, a divine peace paradigm of love, we’re guaranteed to perish if we continue unchecked at this rate. The indicators are here. Proof lies in every direction. Just open your awareness, trust and believe that we are worthy on all levels, physical and soul, for life and existence through all time. Access your inner goodness (Godness) and light. Love one another at all times, always in all ways for we are all one anyway. Wake up. Now you remember.